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Plane Trip

This Christmas we were blessed by my inlaws with a trip to visit them and Josh’s brother’s family in Portland. This meant a first airplane trip for Kieran and Conor. The kids were so excited to see their cousins. I wasn’t sure how much they grasped about the actual flight itself. While the hop from Oakland to Portland is a brief one hour fifteen minutes of flying time, there was a bit to work out logistically flying with the three little ones, Christmas presents and our regular baggage.

The day before our flight the big kids and I talked over what it meant to check in at the airport, go through the security line, drop off our baggage, board the plane, plane etiquette, etc. All Conor cared about was that he got to wheel his suitcase around, Claire was concerned about sending her toy minnie and mickey through the security check point and impatient that we couldn’t get on the plane immediately. She refused to grasp that we could not get on just any flight and go see Grandma and Grandpa. As with anything, even well prepared plans can go awry. The morning of departure the family was dressed and out the door in plenty of time, we found the car park without delay or event, the kids were tickled by the bus ride from the car park to the airport. It was as we drove out of the car park lot that things unraveled a little. We realized the car had been left unlocked. There was nothing to do but turn around and go back to lock it. Josh offered to take one of the kids with him but they were so keyed up about the airport they wanted nothing to do with going back to the car. I had all Kieran’s travel paperwork so he could not go with Josh. So, off the three kids and I went. Each kid with their suitcase and backpack, me with the diaper bag and a purse. In spite of their excitement, the kids had their listening ears on. We got checked in, went through the security line and were putting ourselves back together when we were reunited with Josh.

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The terminal brought on a new level of awe and excitement for Claire and Conor. They loved looking at all the restaurants and deciding where to have breakfast. Claire saw a pretzel place and camped on that but was eventually persuaded to also partake of a Jamba juice as well. Conor was fascinated watching the planes take off and land (of course) and they loved the kids table and chairs at the southwest terminal. Kieran befriended the staff at the southwest counter and crawled all over our gate.

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Ok…yes, its been three years since I’ve flown but when did Southwest change their boarding policy so that family boarding happens in between A & B instead of before the As. I used to fly somewhat often and I never griped about families having first priority. I mean, when flying with three little kids don’t you want all hands on deck? Not mom and some kids at one end of the plane traveling back and forth to visit dad and the other kids? Fortunately we managed to find seats together even if they weren’t right next to each other.

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The kids did well on the flight. They were delighted by the beverage and snack service and in flight magazines. Of course Kieran, who rarely shows preference for a parent decided that now was the time to be mommy ish. So there we were, Josh in one seat across and up the aisle from us and the kids and I in another aisle snacking, coloring and passing the time. Josh turned to me and say, “sometimes, I feel useless.” Of course useless he is not. The highlight of the flight was the minor turbulence and landing. Conor especially squealed when we landed, he loved the feeling of going fast.

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And so our Oregon Christmas adventure began.

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I can’t think of a better time to attempt BART to San Francisco with three small kids than when Grandma and Grandpa are in town visiting so that is just what we did. The kids love trains, I haven’t met a child who is not fascinated by trains. Conor especially was excited to take a train ride.

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Our little excursion took us to Auntie B who in turn directed us to an indoor carousel (perfect for a soggy November day).

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After the carousel, the kids ran around the grounds of the Museum of Creativity, a place we plan to return and visit. Indoor ice skating rink, bowling alley, carousel and museum, sounds like an excellent way to spend the day.

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The kids were just about perfect on the train and even better, all three fell asleep on the ride home. I’m grateful for that because they missed the uber crowded commuter train that would have made Claire uncomfortable and the lecture I received from a grouchy female passenger who presumed I wasn’t from around these parts.

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I’m obsessed with the sleep sacks. I first saw one a few years ago when visiting my French sister Morgan and her little boy Zachary. He was adorable in this zippy blanket thing that had a whale on it, I think. Adorable as only the French can do it. I filed that away even though I was nowhere near the baby phase of my life. Flash forward a few years and imagine my surprise and pleasure upon learning that sleep sacks were not just for French babies, though the French do them much cuter. Yay! My kids have been in sleep sacks ever since – that is until they reach about 18 months when it seems no longer necessary or practical (at least for my kids). So the older two no longer use sleep sacks but Kieran is going strong.

I was presented with a challenge this past week. We went out of town with friends (more on that in a future post) for a weekend. Our family would be sharing a room with one bed, so what to do for sleeping arrangements. We tossed around borrowing the family aerobed but nixed because it had already been reserved. Toys r us has these nifty toddler travel beds but they were too spendy and I was not crazy about buying something else that would get occasional use but mainly become something to store. The kids don’t have their own sleeping bags and while my husband could supply sleeping bags for our family plus some, nobody was in need of a -50 degrees bag. Josh mentioned something about how much Claire liked using his thermarest when we went camping last year and an idea was born.

Follow me for just a moment. I traveled Europe right after I graduated from college. One of the smart travel tips sent my way, bring a sort of sleep sack or sheet so that no matter where you stay, you don’t have to worry about the sheets. It proved to be very helpful. Ok, so combining the kid sleep sack, the thermarest and my European sleep sack…what do you get? The kid bed sleep sack. I’m sure I’m not the first person to do this. Regardless, I am pretty proud of myself. Sadly, our camera has decided to stop working so there will be no pictures of this post.

I made two sleep sacks and spent $11.00. That’s it. I could have made them for free but thought I would sweeten the deal for both kids with a panel of fabric (their choice) for decoration. Claire chose her new favorite, Ariel, the Little Mermaid. Conor chose Icky Mouse (Mickey Mouse). I used two queen size sheets (could have used a smaller sheet but we seem to have an excess of queen size around here). I folded the sheet in half and sewed a pocket for the thermarest to slide in so the kids weren’t sliding off in the middle of the night. Sewed up two and a half sides to create the sack, added the decorative panel and voila! Cheap sleep sack, traveling kid bed. I may go back and add a pocket for their pillows to slide into. I have a feeling Claire will refuse to use the pocket because she likes to sleep on a pillow pet and will want to see her. Conor will probably want what Claire wants simply to be like his sister. So, maybe I will save myself the time and skip the pocket.

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the lovely Ellie getting her Tahoe baptism in the kitchen sink.

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at one point during this floor exerise, Ellie sniped Kieran’s pacifier, Conor noticed, took the pacifier back and returned it to Conor.

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The ice cream brigade…

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The aftermath of round two, rinsing things off Pioneer style (minus the hose).

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sleeping cherubs. I suppose this is a preview of nights to come when we move Conor from crib to bed at home.

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and Kieran here depicts how we pretty much felt at the end of the weekend.

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It started as just another annual trip to one of my favorite places on earth, Lake Tahoe. Tahoe promised beautiful weather and a cabin full of family and friends. I can’t think of a better way to spend the 4th of July, can you? Let me give you a lay of the land. Our cabin, not a house, its a cabin and we love it all the more for the coziness and one bathroom. This place is built for sleeping and entertaining. And one bathroom. Hammock, front deck, back deck surrounded by trees. Beautiful paradise. And its cozy. And it has one bathroom.

This 4th of July the head count to bed ratio was 12 to 10. Cozy right? It was cozy and about to get a whole lot cozier. We had one night of peace (and coincidentally we were the only family up there the first night). The kids could have played at the beach all the live long day. The cold water only deterred them a bit in the beginning. The second night it felt like all hell broke loose. The cabin was now filled to capacity 8 adults, 4 children. Kieran was asleep, we were oogling over Ellie having her bath in the tradition filled cabin sink when Josh runs downstairs to tell me that Conor is throwing up. It was everywhere. So, for the next couple hours it was sheet changing/bath giving/retching/clothes changing. That night was one of the longest I’ve had thus far in my life. When we finally got Conor cleaned up enough to take him to bed we brought him with us. He was so exhausted he would retch fall asleep, retch fall asleep. Unfortunately, since the baby was sharing our room and turns out he’s a VERY light sleeper, it went something like this. Retch, baby cry, Conor fall asleep, Kieran get comforted for 10 minutes and back to sleep. 5 minutes later Conor retch, baby cry, etc. etc. This went on until 2 in the morning. At 5:30 Conor and Kieran were bright eyed and bushy tailed ready for the day.

The following day was disinfectant and laundry central and anybody who had shared water with Conor was praying that he just had a fluke something. There was sand and beach and good company, laughs and crossword puzzles. Monday we all went hiking at D.L. Bliss Park. The day was gorgeous and the kids did really well, especially Claire who walked the whole way. While the kids snacked and called chipmunks we all admired the granite rocks, pine trees and of course, the Lake.

Now we are to Tuesday. Josh gets up with Conor at his new favorite wake up time, 5am ish and comes to inform me that GiGi is not well. And by not well I mean same symptoms as Conor, nasty/violent stomach flu. Lovely, so much for isolated incident. Now everybody is really washing their hands and passing around the purell. Back to the beach we go to give GiGi some quiet healing time when we find out that Pop Pop (who had to leave on Sunday) is struggling with similar symptoms back at home. So to recap, Gigi is down, Pop Pop is down, Auntie B is choosing her foods carefully because her stomach is not feeling so great, Uncle B is experiencing similar issues and we have one bathroom. Tuesday afternoon the cabin also emptied out a bit. Uncle B, Ellie, Auntie B and Katie headed out leaving the kids and I, Meme, GiGi and Josh.

Happy 4th of July!!! Another amazing day in paradise. Gigi, though wiped from the whole experience is feeling much improved. Pop Pop is also feeling better. Josh has to head home this day so before he goes we celebrate the 4th by watching the rinky dink parade at South Shore, I hardly know how you can even call this a parade. No street closure just a cop escort, fire truck and a couple people in their own cars driving slowly down the street waving and honking. I actually missed the whole thing because I was inside a store getting Kieran a hat. On a whim, we took the Heavenly Gondola. Beautiful views, truly an experience.

Josh headed home, we returned to the cabin to hang out and celebrate the 4th together. Now its just ladies and kids. We all retired early, unsure what time he who does not like to sleep (Kieran) would wake up first. Turns out Kieran woke up first at 10:30. I had just got Kieran back to sleep around midnight when a little body snuck into my room. ‘Mommy…tummy hurt.’ It was Conor. Now my heart just sank until I remembered in my sleep deprived haze that he’s been complaining about everything lately well past the point of hurt (my head, my toe, my foot, my arm, my tummy). Ok, crawl into bed with me little buddy. Shortly thereafter we drifted into a light sleep. At the magic hour of 2am I was jolted awake by Conor, retching yet again. I scooped him up, ran downstairs to the bathroom alerting GiGi and Meme along the way that we were going in for another round. (who invited this kid really?) By the time I reached THE bathroom, Conor and I were both covered. Hey, good reason for an impromptu shower at 2am. When I got out of the shower Meme and Kieran greeted me at the door. Oh great, Kieran is up too? We got settled downstairs in recliners covered in towels and waited to see what would happen next. The worst subsided for Conor around 4am when he fell asleep swathed in towels. Kieran finally dozed off downstairs with Meme and I curled up in the chair next to Conor with more towels – too afraid for blankets incase round three came.

Needless to say Thursday was a low key day. More disinfecting, lots more disinfecting. Laundry (lots of it). We explored the forest around the cabin, relaxed in the hammock, blew bubbles and prayed that the worst was over. All day long Meme and I had funky stomachs but both of us were determined not to let it get the best of us. We chose what to eat carefully and played the wait and see game.

Friday Josh and Pop Pop returned for the weekend. There was more beach time, laughter and fun but as a parting shot to a rollar coaster vacation, GiGi’s car was discovered to have a flat tire. With that, we closed the book on another 4th of July.

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I felt a little like Eeyore on the way home, that dark little cloud that sometimes follows a much hyped event following me as we drove home. Back to reality, back to real life. Not that real life is bad or that living forever at the Happiest Place on Earth is good or healthy but it was a lovely respite and I was sad to see it leave so quickly.

Armed once again with snacks (thanks mostly to my Mother in law), new treasure for the kids, and an alluring audiobook, northward we drove. Conor passed out almost immediately. Claire instructed us right around the Citadel on I-5 that she had to poop and we needed to pull over. This temporarily thrust aside the little cloud in the car because as any of you who have been walking this struggle with us know, this IS a BIG deal. I think the hallelujah chorus was pounded through our car, figuratively speaking. Necessities taken care of, we continued our journey. Soon all were asleep, except Josh and Kieran who stubbornly refuses to sleep more than like 30 minutes in his car seat.

Somewhere just north of the grapevine, we all started stirring. Dinnertime at a tacobell/pizza hut (sarcastic yum here…they had no mexican pizza, what in the world?). The kids were SO squirrelly. This truckstop had an “arcade” that Conor spent most of his meal attempting to escape to with his big sister egging him on. The whole stop took us about an hour and fifteen minutes and 80% of that time was spent herding children. phew! Missions accomplished, diapers changed, pajamas donned, we journeyed onward, homeward with the promise of getting to see the family dog as the reward for a long journey. There were a few squabbles but all in all, the rest of the trip was uneventful. The kids fell back asleep, were transferred to their beds at home. With the car unloaded Josh and I followed suit.

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And now for the most hyped portion of the trip. DISNEYLAND! It seems like we’ve lived a whole other life since Josh and I lived in Southern California. Once upon a time we had season passes to the park and visited often. Fireworks and fantasmic on a warm summer night? A great way to pass an evening with good friends. This time it would be fantasy land kiddie rides and waiting in line for the gates to open in the morning having been up for hours before hand. No closing down the park for this bunch. It was sunscreen and naptimes, no lines over 20 minutes and height requirements. It was a whole new experience and no less enchanting though a bit more tiring.

True to form I did my research ahead of time. Here’s what we packed in preparation for the park, much of this was gleaned from others in the blogosphere who have visited the park with their little ones in tow ahead of me.

1. sunscreen/hats
2. bag of snacks/water – the kids were much more pleasant munching on the go than sitting at a table waiting for a full meal.
3. glow sticks for the dark rides in case anybody got nervous.
4. id bracelets made from paper in case we became separated from either of the mobile kiddos
5. extra set of clothes for each kid (in case of fountains, water rides or accidents).
6. lots of diapers for those that need them.
7. mini first aid kit – tynlenol, band-aids, tissue, hand sanitizer, etc. etc.

On the drive from the mountains to Orange County, Claire kept asking when we would see Mickey, couldn’t hardly believe the day was almost upon her. She was treated to a delicious view of the Mickey Ferris Wheel from our hotel balcony. That night she was up until 10pm, well after her normal bedtime. She was in bed at a decent hour but pleasantly awake singing to herself. Could have been sharing a bed with her brother or being in a strange hotel or just the knowledge that the following day she was going to be at Mickey’s house.

The morning dawned with June gloom fashion in May (smog, a little fog, warm and muggy) – great weather for a day outside in Southern California. We were at the gates waiting when they opened. All Claire could focus on was seeing Mickey. Fortunately for us he was right outside Lincoln’s theater greeting guests otherwise we would have spent who knows how much time searching for him. We waited our turn and got the obligatory picture with THE mouse. Both kids were enamored but Conor just kept shouting and waving at him even from the line.

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I will sum up the remaining three days in a nutshell. The kids LOVED it. They were game to try just about anything. Claire was all about the bigger, faster, wetter the ride the better and because she’s on the tall side, very few rides were off limits to her. This child begged to go on Splash Mountain and loved it. I did make her watch a couple logs go down so she knew what she was getting into. She also got a kick out of Big Thunder and was uber bugged that she wasn’t tall enough for Screamin’. (I’m thinking to myself, slow down child, you’re not even four yet). Conor loved the Ariel ride, Small World, tea cups, Casey Junior and I’m sure would have loved the same rides as his sis had he been tall enough. Many wonderful memories were made. We also got to visit with some a couple of old friends. Time flew by faster than I have yet to experience thereby making it impossible to see everybody that we wanted to. Grandpa Gary got a new sidekick, Kieran was all about his grandpa and the more time they spent together, the more it seemed that Kieran was a mini me version of Gary. By 11:30 or 12 the kids were already ready for a little nap and by seven ish they were ready for bed. I was ready for bed too but somehow it didn’t work out for the adults to go to bed quite that early.

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For what its worth, here are my nuggets of advice for traveling to Disneyland with little ones.
1. Don’t necessarily focus on the rides. There are shows, fountains, places to play, characters to photograph and autograph, a whole feast for the eyes. My kids happened to be all about the rides and the lines were not obnoxious so that’s where we spent our time but we could make a whole other trip out of just seeing things around the park and not go on a single ride.

2. Kids pace. Sheesh, when Josh and I had passes, it was no sweat to ride anything and everything in an afternoon (during slower season of course). I found it funny how daunting even just one park was for a family in three days. There was so much to do I feel like we just scratched the surface. I kept reminding myself and my husband to try to see things from their view. So, yep, we went on small world a few times in a row and skipped rides with long lines. We helped inform their choices but ultimately it was their call whether or not to go on a ride. So much the better, more to see the next time we visit.

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The Grandparents aka Magic Helpers (THANK YOU)

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All in all, it was magic. Even Kieran got in on the action, he too was a fan of Small World. The giggles erupting from Conor as he drove the autopia car or Claire as she experienced splash mountain. Claire’s constant refrain “look…look…look” at all the wonderful sights to behold. The kids’ exhausted, blissful, sleeping faces after a day’s excitement.

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Friday morning dawned clear, bright and smelling faintly of pine and blueberry muffins. Ah…the mountains. We were home – Josh’s childhood home. The kids had permission to join the grandparents upstairs at whatever time they awoke. That came at the late for us hour of seven ish (blame the 2 am bed time on the ‘sleeping’ in). By the time Josh, Kieran and I joined the rest of the family upstairs, muffins were coming out of the oven and Claire and Conor were camped out in their cardboard playhouse, a gift from a family friend. The playhouse was outfitted with a lantern courtesy of Grandpa.

Happy Birthday to Josh, he and a good friend watched the Amgen Tour of California as it came through the mountains. For a couple relaxing days we connected with old friends, fed the ducks, made button necklaces, fought squirt gun fights, played with the playhouse walked around the lake and swam in the spa. As relaxing as one can get vacationing with three little munchkins.

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Preparations for our trip began about 10 days prior to departure.

1. Paper chain to count down days til departure. Claire enjoyed decorating each chain. On one she even managed to draw most of her extended family.

2. Activity bags. Designed to provide relief from the monotony of I-5 they were filled (thanks in part to the target dollar bins) with new books, crayons, colorbooks and stickers. I also rummaged around our craft box to pull out any car friendly craft that I had been stockpiling. The big hit was a disney themed activity board. With Conor and Kieran still being a little too young for games, these items helped Conor at least get through the drive.

3. Snack and dinner bag packed with car and rest stop friendly munchies. I especially like the freeze dried fruit from costco and the Annie’s bunny snacks for this purpose.

As the chains on our paper chain came down I began packing the suitcases. The kids I had to squeeze in when they were otherwise occupied because all they wanted to do was play with their suitcases. On Mother’s day morning we clued the kids in on our itinerary. The first stop they knew, Grandma & Grandpa’s house. The second they didn’t, Disneyland. You know, Disney, ever the savvy marketer, has created little videos and slideshows of every attraction at the park – all the better to prepare your child with. So, rather than the kids envisioning a mouse size cottage where Mickey lives, they had a small clue at what they would be experiencing. Each morning before we left that week, we would watch another couple snapshots from the Disney website.

Around our house, Claire and I have created a little story world where she and Lola and occasionally Conor go on adventures all over, to Paris, swim lessons, a train ride, the aquarium. On the morning we left during our traditional morning constitutional, Claire requested the adventure of Lola and Claire go to Grandma and Grandpa’s house. Together we spun a tale of all the adventure our two explorers would have on the long car trip at rest stops and gas stations, sleeping in the car, snacking in the car, playing in the car and finally waking up and arriving at Grandma and Grandpa’s house. I wish I had emphasized more SLEEPING in the car, but oh well. At a couple of different challenging for Claire points on the journey I was able to remind her of how we could add this to their tale of adventure.

Unfortunately for Josh and I, when we did arrive safe and sound at 1:30 am ish in the morning, the kids were wide awake. The ride up the hill in the fog on twisty mountain roads had them raising their arms and cheering a la a rollar coaster ride. Thankfully, by 2:30 most everybody was asleep (ahem Kieran).

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This summer has included quite a bit of spontaneity, as will be evidenced by this and subsequent posts. This plot, hatched by meme, revolved around a last minute overnight trip (which turned into a two night trip) to Monterey – not that I’m complaining. The two night deal seemed to be sealed when our room included a large walk in closet which shouted “little man’s bedroom!” Claire and Conor got a yummy taste of luxury as we stayed on cannery row in a gorgeous hotel with a deliciously comfortable king size bed that Claire made herself right at home in.

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doesn’t that look like a great bed to nap in?

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she was even generous at times to allow Conor some time on the bed.

The focus of our visit to Monterey was of course the Aquarium. The kids loved the aquarium and I think we were surprised at how much Conor enjoyed himself (especially if he was allowed to toddle around on his own). Claire seems to be taking a page from her father’s notebook pausing at each tank only long enough to utter the words “let’s see something else.” If Claire were tour guide, bathroom breaks would not be tolerated and the only places one would be able to stay long enough to take a breath would be the touch pools and the children’s section.

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Overall, I was impressed with how the kids handled themselves in restaurants, with crowds and in the hotel. Of course we had some toddler moments but really, the kids did well.

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Great trip, thanks to Meme who made it possible! Claire still weekly asks to go to the aquarium and this time bring daddy who was holding down the fort at home working.

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